Sometime we just hope that we satisfied others, and are happy to know that the love ones are happy... and sometimes we felt sad, when the others took all the effort for granted. I always remain myself, as what my husband keeps telling me, don't expect others to do what you want them to do, just accept what they can do and be thankful that they are doing it... life is complicated. Me too sometimes... "Mrs. Complicated who is trying to be Mrs. Perfect"